Do you feel like everyone else has a more exciting life than you? Are you frustrated or dissatisfied because you aren't more exciting, doing more, or going places? Do you have Facebook Envy? This can make you feel like you are like a 'wet blanket.'
When we compare ourselves to others, we have forgotten our power and our purpose. It could be that your path is a path of sacred joy, of enlightenment, or mentoring, of educating, of guiding, of connection - and that path looks very, very different from our more-exciting friends.
The 'badass' life isn't about excitement. It's about confidence and purpose and authenticity and sharing our gifts, talents, and wisdom. That may not look exciting, but it is far more rewarding (and important).
Have you tried to fit in? Have you felt like a ‘black sheep’? Have you felt like a square peg trying to fit into a round hole? I know I have for most of my life. And so have a lot of the people I work with.
And then I heard these words: “Why try to fit in when you were born to stand out?” Wow. How does that feel to you? When I heard those words (and they weren’t spoken to me) – I wondered how these words might have made a difference to me years ago.
But hey, it’s never too late and a new perception is born!
I had a ton of fun making this video and I even offer a quickie exercise to help identify your essence energy – you know that energy you embody when you are feeling powerful, confident, and strong.
Don’t fit in; express your essence energy and stand out like the supernova that you are.
Janet works with women who struggle with putting everyone else first, settling, playing small, and not following their dreams. She helps them move beyond the negative voices in their head so they can unleash their purpose, unmask their brilliance, and uncover possibilities that they have been blind to.